Simple Practices to Feel More Grounded, Present and Connected
Simple Practices to Feel More Grounded, Present and Connected
In a world that moves so fast, with constant stress, news, social media, and overthinking, it's easy to feel disconnected from ourselves. Grounding is a simple but powerful way to bring ourselves back to the present moment and reconnect with our bodies and the world around us. By consciously using grounding techniques, we can regain a sense of stability and feel more rooted in the here and now.
Grounding looks different for everyone—it might be mindfulness, deep breathing, engaging your senses, or even somatic movements. These practices help shift our focus away from anxious thoughts or past experiences, gently guiding us back to the present. The beauty of grounding is in its simplicity: all you need are your senses and a willingness to reconnect.
These techniques can be especially helpful when things feel overwhelming or unstable, both online and offline, offering a way to feel more grounded and safe when stress takes over.
Bring Your Attention to Your Current Physical State
While sitting in a chair, take a moment to notice your current physical state and experience. Begin by moving your feet on the floor, allowing yourself to shift and adjust until you feel a strong connection with the floor beneath you. Bring your awareness to your back and bottom, acknowledging the support the chair provides and allowing yourself to fully be supported. This chair is holding you. Take the time to find your comfort spot, appreciating the feeling of being held and stabilized by the chair and grounded by the floor. Now, look around and find something that feels resourceful—a tree outside the window, a book, a piece of art, a calming color, or the floor itself. What do you notice now about your overall experience?
Orienting with the 5-4-3-2-1 Technique
This is a simple and effective practice for bringing your attention to the present moment, engaging your senses and orienting to your space. It can be helpful in moments of anxiety, or stress, or when you feel disconnected from your surroundings.
5 Things You Can See: Look around your immediate environment and intentionally identify five things that you can visually observe. These can be objects, colors, patterns, or anything in your surroundings. Take your time to observe each item, noticing its details and presence.
4 Things You Can Touch: Bring your awareness to your sense of touch and identify four things that you can physically touch or feel. It could be the texture of a surface, the fabric of your clothing, the warmth of your skin, or the sensation of something in your hands. Take a moment to connect with the tactile experience of each item.
3 Things You Can Hear: Direct your focus to your sense of hearing and identify three sounds in your environment. It could be the sound of traffic outside, birds chirping, a ticking clock, or even the hum of appliances. Listen attentively to each sound, letting them anchor you to the present moment.
2 Things You Can Smell: Engage your sense of smell by identifying two scents or smells in your surroundings. It could be the aroma of coffee, a pleasant fragrance, the scent of nature, or any other odor you can detect. Breathe in and take a moment to appreciate the smells, allowing them to ground you in the present.
1 Things You Can Taste: Lastly, focus on your sense of taste and identify one taste or flavor that you can experience. It can be a sip of a beverage, a piece of food, chewing gum, or even the natural taste in your mouth. Take a deliberate moment to savor the taste and fully immerse yourself in the experience.
Containment with Safe Touch
Begin by taking a moment to become aware of your overall experience.
With your right hand, gently place it just below your left armpit, allowing your hand to rest against the side of your chest.
Place your left hand on your right bicep, shoulder, or elbow—whichever feels most comfortable for you.
Take a few minutes to bring your attention to the sensations underneath your hands. Does your body feel warm? Is the texture of your clothing smooth? Can you feel your heartbeat? Do you feel a sense of containment from the touch of your hands and arms?
Pay attention to how the rest of your body responds to this soothing and comforting touch, including your limbs. What do you notice about your overall experience?
Breath Awareness
Breath awareness invites you to bring your attention to the present moment, using each inhale and exhale as an anchor. Begin by taking slow, deep breaths, focusing on the sensations of the breath entering and leaving your body. Notice the gentle rise and fall of your chest and the rhythmic expansion and contraction of your belly. You may find that your mind wanders and that is okay. Gently and compassionately bring your attention back to your breath. With each intentional breath, you reconnect with the present, cultivating a sense of centeredness and stability within.
Essential Oil
Grounding using essential oils involves using specific scents to help connect with the present moment and create a sense of stability and calmness. Take some time to find an essential oil that resonates with you.
You can use essential oils in various ways: apply a few drops to a diffuser, inhale them directly from the bottle, or mix them with a carrier oil for a soothing massage. These oils work by engaging with our limbic system, the brain's emotional center, easing stress, anxiety, and overwhelm, allowing you to feel more balanced and present. Incorporating these oils into your daily routine, especially during meditation or relaxation practices, can enhance your sense of connection to the here and now.
